I had been thinking about this for a while. Is a person naturally born beautiful or is a person beautiful because of a person's effort to maintain his/herself?
I personally believe that no on is born ugly, or fat, unattractive. But I believe that it is laziness that makes a person unattractive.
Women are created to beautiful. But it takes effort and discipline to be beautiful. Sometimes I envy women, because it seemed like a natural gift in them to know how to doll themselves up. The majority of women have a good fashion sense, however there is still a minority. It is the opposite for guys, the majority either do not know how to dress up or do not bother.
It is often said that Men are attracted by sight, women are attracted by words. A female friend once said this to me, that it is not fair that women must dress up for the guys to see, but the guys don't bother to dress up. I kinda agree with that statement. I feel that guys too should learn to improve their fashion sense. A man find a partner comparable to self. If a guy is sloppy in his dressing, it is not far for him to be with a lady who is gorgeous.
As for women, every single one is supposed to be beautiful according to the bible. But sometimes, it is very turn-off to see out of shape ladies. I always wonder why don't they do something to their shape. It just take a little time off their busy schedule to exercise and eat right.
It just take a simple decision and discipline to keep that decision.