I finally got time to blog... Yesterday, Pastor Kong met with the male leaders and the female leaders separately. He urged the leaders to marry young, that everyone of us have been serving and we deserve a good partner. He shared with us the reasons why we should marry young, the things that attracts the girl. I'm willing lower my physical expectations, as long as she looks presentable to me will do...
I just talked to a friend... I asked do you think I am ready for a relationship. The reply was "no", because she feels that my relationship with God is not strong enough. Jo has given me the green light long ago. I mentioned that i will decide by September, this decision is to decide on one person and focus on building a relationship with this person. I think i will still be a few months before i am officially attached. Lots of questions to ask myself...

The one basic requirement is she accepts me for who i am now.